Sometimes, we tend to fix ourselves in what isn’t important and end up blaming others for pushing us into it.
Vying isn’t all about life. The fact that an individual has it doesn’t mean we should push our eyes forward to have that same thing or rather far more than hers or his. For how long will you be involved?
One is economically bouyant enough to have a 3 square meal at an expensive restaurant and decided to make his or her fans know about it and all of a sudden, you see it and immediately have a change of plan to visit there just to show off.
Have you forgotten all fingers are not equal?
Or one has a wedding party and you dress more than the owner of the occasion (the bride or the groom). Or because your heart was broken in a particular or several relationship(s) and you briefly fix up a wedding date with someone so as to cover up and make it look like noth’n happened.
Or because one has the latest vehicle in town and you’re almost fainting cause you have none yet but glued to a guy who doesn’t love you from his heart ’cause:
You turned him to your ATM, Forced him to buy this and that cause the other lady has it too and you want yours to make the news than hers.
Or one has been promoted double while you’re still in a spot.
All these and more leads to envy and the likes.
Love yourself for whom you are, what you are, where you are, where you’ll be…
Contentment is the KEY!